... [There's a pause here as Alhaitham considers how to word what he wants to say next in his mind. He has no intention of being any less blunt, but he does recognize that there are some things that can stand to be addressed in a more delicate fashion.]

From my understanding, being a family means that they are supposed to support you, be it through weal or woe, regardless of the circumstances. The fact that you do not feel your own problems adequate enough to be shared suggests a disparity in this particular facet.

[He could perhaps understand it better if it were more trivial things, but considering what the House does—and more specifically, what Freminet does—its hard to consider anything there as 'trivial' in any fashion.]